{"id":379555,"date":"2013-06-25T15:14:00","date_gmt":"2013-06-25T15:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/2013\/06\/25\/a-day-of-letters\/"},"modified":"2013-06-25T15:14:00","modified_gmt":"2013-06-25T15:14:00","slug":"a-day-of-letters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/2013\/06\/25\/a-day-of-letters\/","title":{"rendered":"A Day of Letters"},"content":{"rendered":"<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Letters.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Letters-228x300.jpg\" width=\"243\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"> <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">I spent yesterday writing.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Long-hand.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">A belated Father\u2019s Day wish to my dad.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">I had phoned him, but the card I\u2019d purchased sat on my desk with the many other seasonal well wishes that would be late.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">I\u2019m not one to scrawl my name on someone else\u2019s sentiment and call it a day.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">I thoroughly enjoy writing letters and putting my own heartfelt thoughts out there.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">I\u2019ve had so many people comment over the years how much my messages mean to them, how much they enjoy them, that I write whenever I can.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">And I\u2019m a firm believer that it is never too late to let someone know you care, never too late to let someone know you appreciate them.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">That\u2019s exactly how I spent the first day of my summer break, spreading kindness and gratitude.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Three notes to the parents of my most-improved students, those children I believed I\u2019d never be able to reach.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">And yet, by some grace we reached an understanding, one that included appropriate language and patience and civility.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">We had arrived at a place where they actually called me by name as opposed to insulting monikers, and one where they seemed, for the most part, at ease.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"> <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">They had earned that little bit of extra attention.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"> <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">I sent seven notes to parents whose children stood out among the rest for their gracious and courteous actions.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">They, too, deserved some special recognition.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">I not only believe in the power of the positive, I believe that if we spent more time focusing on Good News, we might not only attract a great deal more of it, we might actually create an entirely new movement\u2026<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">An anniversary card.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Three correspondences to family and friends whose lives have recently been sidetracked by cancer.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Those are such difficult dialogues to create.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">What do you say to someone whose loved ones are fighting against lung or pancreatic or throat cancer?<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">What do you say to anyone who\u2019s facing Disease or Death or Disaster of any kind?<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">I told them I love them.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">And to the sisters who are facing <i style=\"mso-bidi-font-style: normal;\">The Big C<\/i> in Mother, Brother, and Husband, these are the only words of compassion I could craft.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 1in 10pt;\"><i style=\"mso-bidi-font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">It is such a scary time in our lives when loved ones become ill. When those close to us are hurting, we feel their pain and ours.<o:p><\/o:p><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 1in 10pt;\"><i style=\"mso-bidi-font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">But the beautiful thing about that vulnerability is the knowledge that we have loved so deeply, that we experienced a level of connection that is both marvelous and miraculous.<o:p><\/o:p><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 1in 10pt;\"><i style=\"mso-bidi-font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">I know it\u2019s not much, but I will keep each of you in my thoughts, and am sending out hugs and healing energy to all.<o:p><\/o:p><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 1in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><i style=\"mso-bidi-font-style: normal;\">If there is anything I\/We can do to help ease your burden, be it big or small, please don\u2019t hesitate to let us know<\/i>.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">And I hoped that the message would be the right thing for them, and that it would be received at the right time\u2026<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Seven graduation cards.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">A letter of congratulations and encouragement to Fave, who was leaving the country for an international competition.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">An e-mail to a childhood friend, someone I haven\u2019t spoken to in years, but one who has been popping into my mind repeatedly these past few weeks.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Love.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Sadness.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Celebration.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">My heartfelt messages pouring out from me and onto the blank page.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">May those words hold meaning, may they bear marks of compassion, inspiration, hope, and admiration\u2026<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">My work here is done, for today\u2026<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><\/span> <\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"> <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/annahelizabeth.comsaying-goodbye\/\"><span style=\"color: blue; font-family: \"Cataneo BT\"; font-size: 24pt; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: \"Times New Roman\";\"><span style=\"color: #ea9999;\">Soon\u2026<\/span><\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-family: \"Cataneo BT\"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-fareast-font-family: \"Times New Roman\";\"><o:p><\/o:p><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\"> \ufeff<\/div>\n<div align=\"center\">\ufeff<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I spent yesterday writing. Long-hand. A belated Father\u2019s Day wish to my dad. I had phoned him, but the card I\u2019d purchased sat on my desk with the many other seasonal well wishes that would be late. I\u2019m not one to scrawl my name on someone else\u2019s sentiment and call it a day. I thoroughly [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4054,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[351,60,811,868,895,113,870,896,54,63,897,898],"class_list":["post-379555","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-cancer","tag-compassion","tag-death-and-destruction","tag-disaster","tag-disease","tag-family","tag-good-news","tag-heartfelt-messages","tag-loss-and-healing","tag-parenting","tag-student-recognition","tag-writing-letters"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Letters.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/379555","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=379555"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/379555\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4054"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=379555"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=379555"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=379555"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}