{"id":379593,"date":"2013-03-14T02:22:00","date_gmt":"2013-03-14T02:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/2013\/03\/14\/scouting-tomorrows-leaders\/"},"modified":"2013-03-14T02:22:00","modified_gmt":"2013-03-14T02:22:00","slug":"scouting-tomorrows-leaders","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/2013\/03\/14\/scouting-tomorrows-leaders\/","title":{"rendered":"Scouting Tomorrow’s Leaders"},"content":{"rendered":"
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It\u2019s that time of year, again.<\/span><\/div>\n

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Cabin fever.<\/span><\/div>\n

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Spring fever.<\/span><\/div>\n

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Daylight savings time.<\/span><\/div>\n

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Girl Scout cookies.<\/span><\/div>\n

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Several weeks ago I passed a group of young girls standing at the edge of a parking lot, waving brightly decorated signs \u201cGIRL SCOUT COOKIES!\u201d<\/span><\/div>\n

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The air outside was bitterly cold and snow blew wildly on the wind.<\/span><\/div>\n

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I made a U-Turn and headed back to the business where one of the youth greeted me as I left my car, \u201cWould you like to buy some Girl Scout cookies?\u201d<\/span><\/div>\n

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The sight of these five girls fulfilling the goals of the organization\u2019s premise moved me to offer some form of sponsorship.<\/span><\/div>\n

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\u201cI\u2019m afraid I don\u2019t need any more goodies,\u201d I said, \u201cbut I am so proud of you girls for being out here and doing this, so I\u2019d like to donate one dollar for each of you.\u201d<\/span><\/div>\n
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Then I nodded to the moms standing off to the side and told them how much I appreciated the girls\u2019 dedication.<\/span><\/div>\n

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During most annual sales Warren and I fill our cupboard with the delicious wafers, and add a few extras to our freezers.<\/span><\/div>\n

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A year\u2019s supply of Thin Mints, Peanut Butter Patties, Shortbread, and coconut Samoa\u2019s.<\/span><\/div>\n

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But this year we purchased a measly five boxes of deliciousness.<\/span><\/div>\n

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My recent battle of the bulge and the 5k training regimen I\u2019ve undertaken have forced me to limit yummy splurges.<\/span><\/div>\n

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As such, when this young lady approached us at Big Guy\u2019s soccer game last weekend, lugging around this enormous gym bag filled with the brightly colored packages, Warren\u2019s first response was to tell her, \u201cSorry, Honey, we\u2019ve already purchased a bunch of boxes.\u201d<\/span><\/div>\n
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Me? What did I do?<\/span><\/div>\n
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\u201cShe\u2019s taking the initiative to do this herself,\u201d I whispered into Warren\u2019s ear, \u201cwe have to support her.\u201d<\/span><\/div>\n
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And so we ended up with yet two more boxes.<\/span><\/div>\n
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Here\u2019s what impressed me: The adults weren\u2019t running the show. Grown-ups weren\u2019t selling the cookies\u2014the Scouts were.<\/o:p><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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All three of my children were involved in Scouting, so I\u2019m well acquainted with the pedaling of popcorn and confections.<\/span><\/div>\n
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And the incentives companies offer to its Top Sellers<\/i>.<\/span><\/div>\n
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There seems to be a great deal of pressure on kids to Sell, Sell, Sell.<\/span><\/div>\n
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And though the funds are needed to offset or cover costs of troop activities, I feel that too often the organization\u2019s goals for the participants are lost in politics and the pursuit of the almighty dollar.<\/span><\/div>\n
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Each container of GS cookies touts the skills girls develop while participating in the program.<\/span><\/div>\n
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But here\u2019s the catch: These proficiencies are obtained through practice, preparation that comes only through doing.<\/span><\/div>\n
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Each year, we encouraged our children to set realistic goals that they could achieve on their own or with our assistance.<\/span><\/div>\n
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But they sold every single item.<\/span><\/div>\n
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If they asked me to take an order form to work, I would, but they prepared a note that they attached to the document.<\/span><\/div>\n
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If we couldn\u2019t arrange for them to deliver the product themselves, a handwritten note\u2014with their<\/i> words of appreciation\u2014was included with each delivery.<\/span><\/div>\n
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I\u2019ll never forget the one year Beauty doubled her goal from eighteen to thirty-five boxes.<\/span><\/div>\n
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She was so proud to turn in her sale of thirty-eight boxes.<\/span><\/div>\n
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And she was a bit miffed when the leader\u2019s daughter gloated over selling almost nine-hundred boxes and, once again, winning the grandest prize from the brochure.<\/span><\/div>\n
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\u201cIt\u2019s not fair,\u201d she lamented, \u201cshe didn\u2019t sell those boxes, her mom and dad did at all those businesses they own.\u201d<\/span><\/div>\n
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Even in elementary school she recognized the disparity between those who do their own work and those who don\u2019t.<\/span><\/div>\n
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I simply reminded her that she was the one gathering the skills that would serve her well in life, and that those elements were more valuable than any cool bag or plastic slinky.<\/span><\/div>\n
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I can\u2019t tell you how many times in recent years I\u2019ve had parents approach me or include me in a mass Facebook solicitation, one where they were publicizing their child\u2019s scout or school products. <\/span><\/div>\n
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Each time I\u2019ve indicated I\u2019d be happy to support their child\u2019s efforts and to have him\/her drop me a note via e-mail, to text me or give me a quick call at home.<\/span><\/div>\n
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And I can honestly say that not one single youth has ever reached out.<\/span><\/div>\n
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Even in the age of such accessibility, not one.<\/span><\/div>\n
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But that little gal on the soccer pitch is fulfilling all of Girl Scout\u2019s goals.<\/span><\/div>\n
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Every. Single. One. Of. Them.<\/span><\/div>\n
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And I\u2019d bet my bottom dollar that she\u2019s not only today\u2019s scout, she one of tomorrow\u2019s leaders.<\/span><\/div>\n
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What about you? How do you help your children with their endeavors? Do you find yourself doing it for them for the sake of saving time? Or do you require that they be fully engaged in the process?<\/o:p><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n
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Soon\u2026<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/o:p><\/span><\/div>\n
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