{"id":379804,"date":"2015-09-13T13:14:08","date_gmt":"2015-09-13T13:14:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/2015\/09\/13\/worth-more-than-a-thousand-words\/"},"modified":"2015-09-13T13:14:08","modified_gmt":"2015-09-13T13:14:08","slug":"worth-more-than-a-thousand-words","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/2015\/09\/13\/worth-more-than-a-thousand-words\/","title":{"rendered":"Worth More than a Thousand Words"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Happy Sunday, Journeyer!<\/p>\n<p>I have to tell you, I had no idea what I was going to write about until a few minutes ago&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>My week began with the long trek home from Rock Hill, SC, where <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" title=\"Taking Shape\" href=\"http:\/\/annahelizabeth.com2015\/09\/taking-shape\/\" target=\"_blank\">I spent the Labor Day weekend helping Fave and Squirrel whip their first joint rental home into shape.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>One day of catching up from being gone and then it was back to the grindstone, back to the start of a new school year with that bloody alarm going off at that dreadful hour of six a.m.<\/p>\n<p>I must say that I am <strong>SO PROUD<\/strong> of my kids. I said that to mine and Warren&#8217;s counselors in this week&#8217;s session, when Ess asked, &#8220;Which kids, yours or your students?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I am equally proud of both&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I do call my students &#8220;my kids,&#8221; and for those of you who&#8217;ve been following for a while, you know that most of my elementary-aged students come from one of the hardest areas of our town. Despite the many challenges we&#8217;ve faced, I love the progress we&#8217;ve made in such a relative short period of time.<\/p>\n<p>This year, the majority of those returning students set the bar for the many new ones who joined us, making my job much easier. My messages of &#8220;Fair, Firm, and Consistent&#8221; will get through to them much faster in the absence of pandemonium!<\/p>\n<p>Some of my week&#8217;s brightest moments were the few hugs from students who adore me and the cooperation from those who still aren&#8217;t convinced that a chaos-free environment serves them best.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Privileged\" href=\"http:\/\/annahelizabeth.com2015\/04\/privileged\/\" target=\"_blank\">I feel privileged to be able to be a part of their lives and am just so freaking proud of their hard work and accomplishments<\/a>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The image of them sitting quietly in their seats, hands to themselves, following the rules is one that is worth more than a thousand words&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>As is the excitement I felt when I received my guest ticket to the upcoming Clarity Connects Buffalo event I&#8217;ll be speaking at! If you or anyone you know are in the Buffalo area and are looking for a few hours of inspiration and motivation, check out my events page and get registered to join us!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Clarity-Connects-Buffalo-Guest-Pass.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-medium wp-image-6288 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Clarity-Connects-Buffalo-Guest-Pass-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Clarity Connects Buffalo Guest Pass\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Clarity-Connects-Buffalo-Guest-Pass-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Clarity-Connects-Buffalo-Guest-Pass-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Clarity-Connects-Buffalo-Guest-Pass.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In other happy news&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Warren and I enjoyed a date night out with another couple at a little local restaurant I haven&#8217;t been to in years. They have a tree growing in the middle of the restaurant!<\/p>\n<p>On Friday I reunited these two adorable but lost pups with one very happy owner!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Lost-pups-reunited-with-owner.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-medium wp-image-6290 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Lost-pups-reunited-with-owner-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Lost pups reunited with owner\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Lost-pups-reunited-with-owner-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Lost-pups-reunited-with-owner.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Warren is out of town this weekend and I had high hopes to complete many of the tasks on my to-do list: finish my speech edits and memorization of the last few minutes of dialogue&#8230;Register for the discussions I want to sit in before and after <a title=\"North Carolina Social Worker\u2019s Fall Conference\" href=\"http:\/\/annahelizabeth.comevents\/north-carolina-social-workers-fall-conference\/\" target=\"_blank\">my own workshop presentation at The North Carolina Social Worker&#8217;s Fall Conference<\/a>&#8230;book my flight to the conference&#8230;continue working with the artist on the new logo design for The Five Facets&#8230;continue working on the online course I&#8217;m developing, and do some more writing for the book I&#8217;m currently writing to introduce <span style=\"color: #000000;\">The Five Facets Philosophy<\/span> to the world&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>OH, AND ONE OTHER THING!! I&#8217;m happy to announce that I&#8217;m also co-authoring a book with Lynda Cheldelin Fell! She&#8217;s developing an anthology series called <em>Grief Diaries<\/em> and my name will be listed alongside hers for <em>The Loss of a Child<\/em>. I&#8217;m honored to be a part of this project and excited for this collaboration that is designed to help those in grief&#8230;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_6289\" style=\"width: 240px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Loss-of-a-Child-Cover-Option.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6289\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6289\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Loss-of-a-Child-Cover-Option-230x300.jpg\" alt=\"One of the cover designs being considered\" width=\"230\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Loss-of-a-Child-Cover-Option-230x300.jpg 230w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Loss-of-a-Child-Cover-Option.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 230px) 100vw, 230px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-6289\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">One of the cover designs being considered<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I&#8217;m also contributing to two other books in the series. The prompts for each of those books also needed my attention this weekend as the first deadline is tomorrow&#8230; If you or someone you know might be interested in<span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> <a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" title=\"Grief Diaries Website\" href=\"http:\/\/www.griefdiaries.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">contributing to the series<\/a><\/span>, it&#8217;s not too late!<\/p>\n<p>Needless to say I had high hopes for all the work I was going to accomplish yesterday but after I showered and ate, I found myself in the unusual position of not wanting to do a thing. Seriously, the gray skies and the raindrops splashing across my windows seemed to suck the life right out of me. All I wanted to do was play Candy Crush and then take a nap.<\/p>\n<p>A nagging gloom shrouded me and filled my thoughts with all kinds of negative emotion&#8230;icky feelings that I couldn&#8217;t shake no matter how many times I tried shifting my thoughts back to something positive&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Guess what I did.<\/p>\n<p>I grabbed my car keys and went for a ride, ultimately ending up at a local garden shop where I  purchased two large mums for my front porch, several shrubs for the house we are trying to rent, and a few blaze red and orange flowers&#8230;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_6293\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Surprise-Colored-Fall-Mum.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6293\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6293\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Surprise-Colored-Fall-Mum-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"A tri-colored surprise mum!\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Surprise-Colored-Fall-Mum-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Surprise-Colored-Fall-Mum-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Surprise-Colored-Fall-Mum.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-6293\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A tri-colored surprise mum!<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Fall-Color-to-Lift-My-Spirits-Mums.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6287 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Fall-Color-to-Lift-My-Spirits-Mums-273x300.jpg\" alt=\"Fall Color to Lift My Spirits - Mums\" width=\"273\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Fall-Color-to-Lift-My-Spirits-Mums-273x300.jpg 273w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Fall-Color-to-Lift-My-Spirits-Mums.jpg 359w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 273px) 100vw, 273px\" \/><\/a>After filling the underside of my nails with fresh soil and pulling a bunch of weeds from my flower garden, I ate lunch and, finally realizing that I didn&#8217;t have the energy or desire to go to those emotionally difficult places, I curled up with a book my friend recently loaned me because she was positive I would love it&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/On-Comy-Sofa-Reading-Jodi-Picoults-Leaving-Time.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-medium wp-image-6291 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/On-Comy-Sofa-Reading-Jodi-Picoults-Leaving-Time-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"On Comy Sofa Reading Jodi Picoult's Leaving Time\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I read a few pages and then took that several hour nap, awaking just in time for dinner.<\/p>\n<p>As night fell and the rain subsided, I made my way to my office and to the work at hand. Realizing I hadn&#8217;t made any posts on any of my social media sites for quite a while, I uploaded something to Instagram&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s where this photo comes in, Journeyer&#8230;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_6294\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Worth-more-than-a-thousand-words...TrueHeartGal-Photo-with-her-Horse.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6294\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6294\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Worth-more-than-a-thousand-words...TrueHeartGal-Photo-with-her-Horse-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"I cropped this image from a larger photo because this little piece fully captures the essence of the Human-Horse bond TrueHeartGal writes about\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-6294\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I cropped this image from a larger photo because this little piece fully captures the essence of the Human-Horse bond TrueHeartGal writes about<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Scrolling through Instagram, a larger photo of a that horse caught my eye and I made a quick comment&#8230; This morning there was a message waiting on my iPhone screen&#8230;the author had replied to my note&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Something drew me to her bio, which pointed me to her website, which carried me through a few mesmerizing, equally heartbreaking and heartfelt posts&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You see, that beautiful fellow, Metro, is what the writer calls &#8220;the horse of her dreams.&#8221; And he&#8217;s sick, Journeyer. As I type these words another lump forms in my throat and now I type through the same watery eyes I had as I read some of their story&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The tears that fill my eyes are a mix of sad and happy tears&#8230;  I know TrueHeartGal understands that blend of emotion&#8230; In her post, <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" title=\"Stubborn Gladness by TrueheartGal\" href=\"http:\/\/www.trueheartgal.com\/2014\/11\/stubborn-gladness.html\" target=\"_blank\">Stubborn Gladness<\/a><\/span>, she writes, &#8220;It\u2019s a strange thing to joyfully rejoice while facing the end. But, I also realize it\u2019s what we are all doing, really.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Nothing could be further from the truth: With each day we live, we are also that much closer to the end. &#8220;All things live and all things die,&#8221; I&#8217;ve said to my children when talking about this difficult subject&#8230;Death&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>TrueHeartGal&#8217;s photo captures the essence of a love that transcends time and space, Journeyer. It is a moment suspended in time, one that is worth far more than a thousand words&#8230;an infinite number of invisible words that are woven into the fiber of each and every pixel of the vision&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It is one of those simple HappyHappens moments that are the essence of this practice I write about week after week&#8230;the practice of paying attention to those joyful, warm moments and of paying them homage&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>As I went back to find that post to cite here, I noticed that her words were penned nearly a year ago&#8230; I do not know if her beloved Metro is still alive in this physical world, but this I do know&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>His spirit lives on to create new stories and to claim the hearts of many more people&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Thank you, TrueHeartGal for sharing Metro, the &#8220;Horse of your dreams&#8221; with us&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Thank you, Universe, for the countless ways you bring happiness to our hearts&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>What about you, Journeyer? What moments made you smile or warmed your heart this past week? I love hearing from you and sharing your little joys! I look forward to your comment below.<\/p>\n<p>Yours in hope, healing, and happiness,<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"On Saying Goodbye\" href=\"http:\/\/annahelizabeth.com2013\/06\/on-saying-goodbye\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-4724\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Blog-Post-Signature-Sign-Off-300x137.jpg\" alt=\"On Saying Goodbye\" width=\"300\" height=\"137\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Blog-Post-Signature-Sign-Off-300x137.jpg 300w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Blog-Post-Signature-Sign-Off-1024x466.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Blog-Post-Signature-Sign-Off-768x350.jpg 768w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Blog-Post-Signature-Sign-Off-1080x492.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Blog-Post-Signature-Sign-Off-980x446.jpg 980w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Blog-Post-Signature-Sign-Off-480x219.jpg 480w, https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Blog-Post-Signature-Sign-Off.jpg 1243w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy Sunday, Journeyer! I have to tell you, I had no idea what I was going to write about until a few minutes ago&#8230; My week began with the long trek home from Rock Hill, SC, where I spent the Labor Day weekend helping Fave and Squirrel whip their first joint rental home into shape. 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