{"id":379848,"date":"2016-01-25T20:47:45","date_gmt":"2016-01-25T20:47:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/2016\/01\/25\/how-a-bug-brightened-my-day\/"},"modified":"2016-01-25T20:47:45","modified_gmt":"2016-01-25T20:47:45","slug":"how-a-bug-brightened-my-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/2016\/01\/25\/how-a-bug-brightened-my-day\/","title":{"rendered":"How a Bug Brightened My Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Happy Sunday-Monday, Journeyer!<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever felt like the world is conspiring against you?<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, that.<\/p>\n<p>For those of you who have been following me for a while, you might recall how my employer contacted another company I had an interview with and enacted a secret code that said: She&#8217;s off limits. Don&#8217;t hire her.<\/p>\n<p>True story. The favoritism, abuse of power, and the nepatistic-like behaviors that go on in the workplace are just downright disheartening, infuriating, and mind-blowing. If you aren&#8217;t among one of the two factions that dictate the goings on, then you are shit out of luck.<\/p>\n<p>After ten months passed without resolution to some safety issues regarding the students I work with, I told my boss that I had finally decided to look elsewhere. I made the  mistake of telling him I had a scheduled interview and disclosed the name of the person with whom I had an interview.<\/p>\n<p>Suffice it to say that something was said about my boss calling them the afternoon before my interview and telling them that he &#8220;didn&#8217;t want to lose me&#8221; and then spelled out some of my greatest accolades. Of course they said, he&#8217;d called on some other business and just mentioned me in passing.<\/p>\n<p>Something seemed really fishy, because, who does that? Isn&#8217;t it illegal for your current employer to initiate a dialogue&#8211;unsolicited&#8211;and speak to a potential employer about you?<\/p>\n<p>Our union thought so, but after much discussion and several attorneys later, it was determined that I didn&#8217;t make enough money for a lawyer to take on the case because the District could drag the case out for as many as ten years&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Well, on Friday, I once again found myself in another situation at work that has <em>foul<\/em> written all over it.<\/p>\n<p>After a long and arduous stay, I don&#8217;t feel like I&#8217;m making a difference with the group of children I serve and I had put in for a transfer to another area, which was ultimately given to&#8230;well, someone else&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Our union president was brought into it and this is what he had to say: &#8220;Yes, there is a favoritism going on and it needs to be addressed and the language in your contract needs to be cleaned up. Unfortunately, you are caught in the cross-hairs. If I were to take this to a judge, I&#8217;d lose. I&#8217;m sorry this happened to you but there&#8217;s nothing I can do.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><em>I understand that position, but let me ask this: When are people going to stand up for what is <strong>fucking<\/strong> right?!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Yeah. That.<\/p>\n<p>I not only thought it, I screamed it at the poor guy before thanking him for his time.<\/p>\n<p>It was a few hours later that I burst out laughing.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it&#8217;s better to laugh than to cry. Right?<\/p>\n<p>Did I mention that every day last week was also leading up to Saturday&#8217;s full moon? Full moon energy is a bit like crazy making, Journeyer!<\/p>\n<p>The thought that triggered a snicker was this: Maybe this is the universe&#8217;s way of telling me I need to be right where I am for now.<\/p>\n<p>For weeks now I&#8217;ve been dreading going to bed because I don&#8217;t want to get up in the morning. One day last week I actually said to Warren as I was walking out the door, &#8220;I hate my job.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s such an unpleasant place to be. I don&#8217;t want to be like that. I used to say on a regular basis, &#8220;I LOVE my job.&#8221; I do love my job because it fits so beautifully into my life and because I feel like I&#8217;m making a difference  in the lives of others&#8230;but the workplace environment and the crap that goes on?<\/p>\n<p>Not so much&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>So now I&#8217;m back to the drawing board to find ways to keep the bullshit from coloring each and every day black and blue.<\/p>\n<p>How did I get through last year&#8217;s ordeal? After much fuming and fussing, I finally realized that my boss&#8217; move to keep me working for him was one of the most back-handed compliments I could have received. He did that because he valued me as an employee and didn&#8217;t want to lose me.<\/p>\n<p>This time around, I can&#8217;t help but think about the bizarre randomness of how everything played out&#8230; As I like to say, &#8220;Everything has a purpose if we&#8217;re willing to see it.&#8221; So, too, shall this have meaning&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>That said&#8230;If you have any information about affordable, privatized insurance, I&#8217;d be ever indebted if you&#8217;d share!!<\/p>\n<p>But I digress&#8230;back to those things that put a smile on my face&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>There were brisk walks with pooch Patches&#8230;a full moon to light our way&#8230;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_7509\" style=\"width: 303px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Patches-Sporting-Crossfit-1208-Shirt-Sorry-Out-of-Friendship-Bracelets.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7509\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7509\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Patches-Sporting-Crossfit-1208-Shirt-Sorry-Out-of-Friendship-Bracelets-293x300.jpg\" alt=\"Patches shirt: \"Sorry, we are all out of friendship bracelets.\"\" width=\"293\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-7509\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Patches shirt: &#8220;Sorry, we are all out of friendship bracelets.&#8221;<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_7508\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Patches-and-Me-Braving-the-Cold.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7508\" class=\"wp-image-7508 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Patches-and-Me-Braving-the-Cold-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Patches and Me Braving the Cold\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-7508\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">So we bundled up and braved the cold night air!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Watching morning sunrises on my morning commute&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Abundant sunshine!<\/p>\n<p>A photo of my sister&#8217;s homemade vegetable beef soup that inspired me to whip up my delicious winter soup.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_7506\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Sisters-Homemade-Veg-Beef-Soup.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7506\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7506\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Sisters-Homemade-Veg-Beef-Soup-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Isn't it drool-worthy?\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-7506\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Doesn&#8217;t Sis&#8217; soup look drool-worthy?<\/p><\/div>\n<p>My sister&#8217;s and my daily morning commute conversations&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Whirrel, who designed The Five Facets&#8217; logo began working on the cover image for my next book! Though I&#8217;m currently swamped with other demands, I&#8217;m so excited to have one more piece of that next publication!<\/p>\n<p>Humor&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Hugs from those I love&#8230;including our pup!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Patches-Hugging-Warren.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7510 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Patches-Hugging-Warren-e1715646941893-207x300.jpg\" alt=\"Patches Hugging Warren\" width=\"207\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>But the fleeting thing that stood out above all was a Volkswagon Bug. Not just any bug; a powder blue bug with those funky eyelashes. As the car passed, I noticed a gray-haired Betty White look-alike behind the wheel. When I looked in the rear view mirror, I spotted the unmistakable bumper sticker: a pink breast cancer ribbon.<\/p>\n<p>That last fleeting fancy just seemed like a gentle reminder to embrace each day, to smile, to laugh, and to not take things so damned seriously all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Who&#8217;d have thunk that a little blue bug could have such an impact?<\/p>\n<p>What about you, Journeyer? What moment(s) cured what was bugging you last week? Your comments are not only the highlight of my day, they validate your own happiness! Share away!<\/p>\n<p>Until next time, yours in hope, healing, and happiness,<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Annah-Elizabeth-Signature.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7123\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Annah-Elizabeth-Signature-300x52.jpg\" alt=\"Annah Elizabeth Signature\" width=\"300\" height=\"52\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy Sunday-Monday, Journeyer! Have you ever felt like the world is conspiring against you? Yeah, that. For those of you who have been following me for a while, you might recall how my employer contacted another company I had an interview with and enacted a secret code that said: She&#8217;s off limits. Don&#8217;t hire her. 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