{"id":379897,"date":"2016-06-05T17:32:54","date_gmt":"2016-06-05T17:32:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/2016\/06\/05\/row-row-row-your-boat\/"},"modified":"2016-06-05T17:32:54","modified_gmt":"2016-06-05T17:32:54","slug":"row-row-row-your-boat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.annahelizabeth.com\/index.php\/2016\/06\/05\/row-row-row-your-boat\/","title":{"rendered":"Row, Row, Row Your Boat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Happy Sunday, Journeyer,<\/p>\n<p>Warren, Big Guy, and I spent most of last Sunday in a parking lot at an inlet&#8217;s edge, trying to fix a broken boot on our boat.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;d made plans for a Memorial Day outing with Beauty and her beau, and the boat had been the day&#8217;s major attraction.<\/p>\n<p>Upon discovering that the repair had ruptured during the night, Hubby, Son, and I quickly switched gears, repacked, and revised our plans.<\/p>\n<p>Kan Jam and a new lawn dart game I&#8217;d purchased became the day&#8217;s entertainment. We tossed in water shoes so we could hike the gorge our family has trekked countless times over the years.<\/p>\n<p>Upon arriving to the lake, we discovered kayak, canoe, paddle boat, and water board rentals!<\/p>\n<p>We first rented tandem kayaks, with Warren and I taking turns rowing with Big Guy. How do you spell teenager? Let&#8217;s see if I can tip Mom and Dad over when one of them is on board with me.<\/p>\n<p>Proud and happy to say that this Mama hoisted herself back into the seat and away we went.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve never been rowing, let me just say it is such a peaceful movement and being on the water makes it even more so, sans the capsizing, of course. Though I must say that the laughter that ensued is equally good for the soul!<\/p>\n<p>I spent the rest of my six-day break from school doing more cleaning, reading, researching, reflecting, and networking.<\/p>\n<p>We all went up to a little nearby pond one night, where I enjoyed watching Warren and the kids fish. Hubby set up a rig for me on which I immediately caught two sunnies. I&#8217;ve never understood why I wasn&#8217;t fond of this form of recreation. I always sort of thought of it as boring, but on this night the truth hit home: I don&#8217;t like the idea that I am causing another life form pain. I imagine that getting a hook into a lip is quite painful and that being handled by large unidentified beasts would be unsettling.<\/p>\n<p>Since I am not a fish I cannot know if they feel pain or fear, but if they do, I don&#8217;t want to be responsible for that. Does that make sense?<\/p>\n<p>Nonetheless, I DO enjoy watching my family and friends enjoying themselves, for I find happiness in their joy.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/The-Five-Facets-Lakeside-Wedding-Photo.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-9059\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/The-Five-Facets-Lakeside-Wedding-Photo-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"The Five Facets Lakeside Wedding Photo\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>Other  moments that lifted my spirits include the iris flowers in full bloom in my yard, a steady stream of hummingbirds at my feeders, a therapeutic massage, talks with my parents and my morning commute conversations with my sis, a dinner date with Warren, hot tub soaks with Hubby, the season&#8217;s first crickets and fireflies, the inspiration for more book ideas and articles, sunshine, a few short jaunts with my pooch, a lakeside wedding for the daughter of long-time family friends, fluffy white clouds, and super soft toilet paper (this week&#8217;s heatwave brought me a serious bout of bowel troubles. I&#8217;ll spare you the rest of the details.)<\/p>\n<p>This morning, as I was moving some more papers around on my desk, I found a fortune cookie note that read: &#8220;Service is the rent you pay for having room on the Earth.&#8221; Turns out it&#8217;s a Muhammad Ali quote. Poignant and super cool that this inspiration should be unearthed from my mess the day following this legend&#8217;s death.<\/p>\n<p>That is another of life&#8217;s little divine appointments.<\/p>\n<p>[Tweet theme=&#8221;basic-white&#8221;]&#8221;Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on earth.&#8221; ~Muhammad Ali[\/Tweet]<\/p>\n<p>This week&#8217;s title stemmed from the many boating vessels found in the images that captured some of my joys from the past seven days.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve never heard some of the stories behind classic nursery rhymes, suffice it to say that many of them are a bit daunting. <em>Row, Row, Row, Your Boat<\/em>, however, is akin to one of my other favorites, <em>The Little Engine that Could<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Row, Row, Row Your Boat is about life, living, and learning.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That childhood ditty is about captaining the ship of your own life. I imagine that the rowing metaphor has to do with achieving the sort of zen feeling I experienced when out on the lake. It&#8217;s about finding balance, about learning to be in the moment, and about letting go of the tension that tends to turn us upside down.<\/p>\n<p>While looking for validation that I interpreted this nursery rhyme correctly as a positive one, I stumbled across<a href=\"http:\/\/sausedo.net\/2012\/10\/25\/the-truth-about-row-row-row-your-boat\/\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">an article by author Contento49 of the blog <em>A Day in the Life and Other B.S<\/em><\/span>.<\/a> I absolutely love this line about his interpretation of this childhood sing-along: &#8220;you are the oarsman, rowing down the river of time.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Journeyer, we are absolutely the oarsman of our happiness.  Like healing, happiness is a choice. We choose to see the signs, we choose to acknowledge them by incorporating them into our daily stories. And like the oarsman, we choose when to paddle and when to rest.<\/p>\n<p>I love rowing along side you down this river called <em>Life<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/It-doesnt-matter-where-you-go-in-life-its-who-youre-with-sign-Annah-Elizabeth-The-Five-Facets-photo.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-medium wp-image-9058 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/It-doesnt-matter-where-you-go-in-life-its-who-youre-with-sign-Annah-Elizabeth-The-Five-Facets-photo-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"It doesn't matter where you go in life, it's who you're with sign Annah Elizabeth The Five Facets photo\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>What about you, Journeyer? What moment(s) brought you a zen feeling, made you smile, or warmed your heart as you rowed through this past week of your life? Your neighbors and I want to know! Share something?<\/p>\n<p>Until we meet again, yours in hope, healing, and happiness,<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Annah-Elizabeth-Signature.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7123\" src=\"https:\/\/annahelizabeth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Annah-Elizabeth-Signature-300x52.jpg\" alt=\"Annah Elizabeth Signature\" width=\"300\" height=\"52\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy Sunday, Journeyer, Warren, Big Guy, and I spent most of last Sunday in a parking lot at an inlet&#8217;s edge, trying to fix a broken boot on our boat. We&#8217;d made plans for a Memorial Day outing with Beauty and her beau, and the boat had been the day&#8217;s major attraction. 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